Wednesday, January 6, 2010

The crazy people

It just amazes me how an individual could think playing on the emotions of another is alright.. I mean WTF right.. Pardon my french but really. I hope this person who contacted us stops immediately their mind F*#king and grows up.. Sorry for the harsh words ya'll but it did sting a bit. Positive vibes are now in my mind and have moved forward. Wish us luck. Is it really luck ??


  1. There are many ups and downs on the adoption road. Crazy is just the card you are sometime dealt. I wish I could tell you that it is easy but this was the hardest thing we ever did.
    We had failed placements, disappearing birthmothers, money lost to scammers. In the end, we learned a lot about life and ourselves. Keep up the good fight and continue on with your search. Your baby will find you and all the crazy people will be a distant memory. Jose and I live by the motto... "All things come round to him who will but wait."
    Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
    Wishing Chad and you all the best as you continue on your adoption journey!

  2. Im so sorry. Someone did that to us too through craigs list when we first started thinking about adopting. Its really not fair and I hope those people rot when their time comes.

  3. Good luck with your search!

  4. Are you strictly wanting to adopt a newborn? From what I hear there are older children caught up in the foster care system, but as for newborns, I wouldn't know where to begin.

    I want to offer help, since you are helping someone else. Thank you for opening up your home to a baby and their biological parents who need the help and want the best for their baby. Not many people are so generous. I think adoption is a loving guesture, on the adopting parents, and on the parents giving up the child.

    Have you considered overseas? A lot of babies in third world countries would stand a better chance here. I hope that does not sound insensitive.

    Best of luck, and keep us posted!

    ladybugmagic -

  5. nice post...just wanna be a friend...

  6. Don't worry stay strong. you will get your kid, two guys who can give so much love to one child deserves it.